"I love you" is perhaps the word most intimate and anonymous at the time. It is interesting to note that while the language of love takes a collective vehicle for personal destination. Not that the sentiment is true, but the use of a social code so common for so personal a statement tells us the feeling of love. "I love you" is both a satisfaction and a universal application.
Love is the satisfaction that a (e) other, chosen (e), penetrates our true identity and loves us as it is. This involves finding a balance in our own love to open her heart to another, without an easement or relative egocentric. Self-esteem is indeed necessary to give us an inner strength and confidence inspiring, but it should not turn exacerbated the egocentrism of living for himself in self-worship (or self-flagellation because it is, at bottom, another face drawn vanity ...). To love another one must first love oneself, ie "take care of yourself for being more so even a problem. "
But with" I love you "I try to subdue the other, which makes me dizzy and a confession that is both polling and petition to end the uncertainty ... (for just a moment because the oaths fade after a few days). Are we doomed to this ongoing investigation that may drift into a morbid jealousy or a sense of erasure? Should he remain silent to keep the flame ? locked in a polite evasion to keep intact the excitement of first meetings?
"In the fragility of the little man, love reading his own weakness, his character fatal: it is itself the slender spark of life just waiting to ignite. Love and is willing to lose another, even if it means our misfortune is to emancipate our way, do not invest this mandate impossible reciprocity "(Pascal Bruckner, the paradox of love Grasset, 2009)
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